Note: These testimonials come from feedback provided by survivors receiving our services, in anonymous surveys, feedback forms, or letters. The survivors’ identities have been withheld to protect their privacy and confidentiality. Thank you for your understanding.
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Featured testimonial:
“I was able to get mine and my children’s life back and be safe while doing it. I never thought I could have done it, but with your help I now know I can do anything.”
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“[Domestic Violence Resource Center] has been a huge help to me in a number of ways and I’d like to be able to help any way I can.”
“I appreciate all you do. It was a blessing in my life.”
“I have learned that I can speak for myself and not have to get beat for it. I do not have to take it anymore.”
“[H]aving a place to go to is tremendous.”
“I got stronger as an individual and realized how much better off I am without my abuser. My daughter used to have nightmares and not sleep well at night. She got into a routine and fell asleep easier.”
“I have gained self worth and self-confidence.”
“I feel much stronger and confident in myself. I feel I can make my own decisions now. My children seem happy and I saw them play and laugh again.”
“I accepted the fact that I had been emotionally damaged and realized the need for relaxation and counseling.”
“[My children] became more calm.”
“I am more open to various styles of parenting. My child is calmer, more cooperative and less stressed.”
“I became empowered and took action.”
“I have gained back much of my self worth. I am much happier. My children have also improved since our stay [at Monika’s House Shelter]. We have also gained some wonderful friends.”
“[My] kids don’t fight as much with other kids.”
“Because of those that advocated for me, I am leaving with a very positive change.”
“Thank you, thank you, thank you, for being you and being available to me. It is so reaffirming to know there are good people still and especially in positions of authority.”
“I learned a lot from you guys. You helped me to be a better person and better mom, to love myself and appreciate life each day. Most importantly, helping people, one way or another, who are in the same situation I was in before makes me feel good when I can do something for them. Thank you so much for helping and supporting us, and I wish the best to you to keep up the good work.”
“The services I received were great. I felt at home, it was great for my healing process.”
“You are a stepping-stone to getting one’s life back together.”
“I feel so blessed. It has been a long time since I was truly happy. I found myself alone in various shelters with nobody to hold my hand and speak on my behalf. I learned to survive and be independent again. It is overwhelming and frightening at times. But I am safe, happy, and free. I broke the cycle of domestic violence. I am a survivor.”
“It felt like a family. Everyone was so nice and friendly.”
“This agency does a lot of great things for women* and children.”
* In all of our programs, we serve all survivors regardless of gender, i.e. including males.
“I am grateful to have this service available to me. It has helped me grow.”
“I learned to be more patient and accepting of change.”
“My children miss our house but they are fine and safe.”
“I regained my assertiveness and began to focus on me again.”
“I focused on my health, life direction and personal needs.”
“I feel very lucky to have found your organization.”
“Great job, you all were good in defusing my emotional moments.”
“I left the [Monika’s House Shelter] with more set living skills and a safety plan.”
“I now have an understanding of what happened to me, why and how to keep it from happening again in the future.”
“My son is happier, excited, looks different.”
“I enjoy coming here and feel it has helped me make better decisions in whom I chose as a partner.”
“From my experience here, it was next to perfect. Thank you all for your dedication. You are a blessing to all women* at such a critical time in their life. You have been a blessing for me.”
* In all of our programs, we serve all survivors regardless of gender, i.e. including males.
“I appreciate everything that Monika’s House [Shelter] staff has done for my boys and me. You made me feel very loved and welcome.”
“Accessing your services has made all the difference while going through these horrible circumstances.”
“The services have helped me tremendously in recognizing abusive patterns in my life. Formulating plans [helps stop] the patterns and live a healthier life.”
“I can do anything I set my mind to.”
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